Age guide: 3–7 years; adapt movement and sensory demands
A row of colourful objects may look like a pattern. But what makes it predictable? Learning to find the part that repeats gives children something more useful than guessing the next colour.
The short answer
- Show the repeating part more than once.
- Say or demonstrate the sequence together.
- Invite your child to explain the rule.
- Use sounds, movement or pictures according to their needs.
DREME’s pattern guidance describes repeating patterns in several forms, including actions and sounds. The short game below explores the repeating unit; it is an adaptable example, not a formal lesson sequence.
1. Make a two-action loop
Choose two comfortable actions, such as a gentle table tap followed by a hand wave. Perform the pair twice: tap, wave, tap, wave. Ask your child what they notice before asking what should come next.
Keep the volume and movement comfortable. A child who dislikes sudden sounds might prefer drawings or large objects. A child who cannot perform the actions can direct you or choose symbols.
2. Find the smallest part that repeats
Say: “Our little group is tap, wave. Then we do that group again.” Draw a loop around each pair if you are using pictures.
A single tap and wave does not show the repetition yet. Repeating the whole unit makes the rule visible. Once your child is comfortable, pause and let them choose whether to continue it or deliberately change the rule.
3. Play detective, not examiner
Make a sequence with a missing action: tap, wave, tap, pause. Ask what would fit the agreed rule. Let your child explain by performing, pointing or describing.
- If they choose something different, ask what pattern they are making.
- If the rule is unclear, demonstrate it again.
- If the task is too easy, try a longer unit.
- If it is frustrating, return to copying the pair together.
Not every unexpected answer is a mistake. Your child may have invented a different sequence. Explore that without pretending every possible continuation follows the original rule.
4. Change the materials while keeping the rule
Turn tap-wave into big-small using drawings. Does it have the same repeating structure? This is a chance to notice a relationship across two examples, rather than memorising a particular row of objects.
Keep physical materials large and safe, and supervise as needed. You do not need beads, sweets or expensive pattern kits.
Finish with your child in charge
Invite them to create a short pattern for you. Make your thinking visible: “I’m looking for the part you repeated.” If you get it wrong, check together.
Pattern play can last only a few enjoyable turns. The aim is to notice and discuss a rule, not to keep adding difficulty until someone stops having fun.
Keep exploring
- Beyond “What shape is this?”: better conversations during building play
- Seeing three without counting: a playful guide to subitizing








