The Play-by-Play Game: giving a toddler the words for what they’re already doing

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Watch a two year old carefully attempt to fit a ball into a jar, and narrate the whole thing back to them like a sports commentator calling a match. The Play-by-Play Game gives children the words to describe what they’re already doing, which turns ordinary play into a genuine language-building opportunity.

Why this game matters

At this age, children are rapidly absorbing vocabulary, but they often don’t yet have the words to describe their own actions as they happen. Narrating their play in real time, “You’re putting the ball inside the jar!”, directly connects spoken language to the physical action a child is already doing, which is one of the most effective ways young children build vocabulary and sentence structure. Asking occasional questions on top of the narration adds a light layer of reflective thinking as well.

What you need

Nothing but your attention and your voice.

How to play

Watch what your child is already doing, and describe it out loud as it happens, using clear, simple language: “You’re stacking the blocks. That one’s wobbly. Now you’re adding another one.” There’s no need to direct or correct their play, your role here is simply to put words to what’s already happening.

For extra fun, use a silly voice to imitate a sports commentator, a news anchor, or a game show host narrating the action, which most children find genuinely funny and tends to hold their attention even longer.

Add the occasional question into your narration: “What will you do next?” or “I see you want to put the ball inside the jar. Is there another way to do that?” These invite your child to think a step ahead or consider an alternative, without taking over the play itself.

Variations

Let your child try narrating your actions back to you occasionally, which flips the game and gives them active practice putting their own observations into words.

Narrate a wider range of activities over time, not just toy play, cooking together, getting dressed, a walk outside, so vocabulary builds across many different everyday contexts, not just one kind of play.

Why staying descriptive, not directive, matters

The real value of narration comes from describing what a child is actually doing, not steering them toward what you think they should do next. Resist turning narration into a string of instructions, the goal is to give language to their own choices and actions, which respects their independence while still building vocabulary.

A few minutes of narrating a toddler’s ordinary play, in your normal voice or your silliest sportscaster impression, costs nothing and fits into almost any moment of the day. For a child still building their vocabulary, that steady stream of connected, descriptive language is genuinely valuable, however small and casual it looks from the outside.

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